Relationships with people are hard, no doubt about that. Forging bonds takes work and constant upkeep. Relationships are like plants, they need care to keep them alive and help them grow. Most relationships are worth the effort because you get so much in return; love, comfort, safety, friendship, joy, pride.
Some relationships however, can cause you a pain so deep, that no amount of effort on your part can repair them or make them good. Sometimes the work you put in does not come back to you in a good way. It’s easy to want revenge or to cause pain as you feel but let me say, this is not the way to make the hurt go away. .
Never wish anyone pain. Remember that if someone has caused you pain, they must have pain inside of them already. Don’t wish for them to hurt more but rather wish them healing. Hope that they can find peace within themselves so that in time perhaps the relationship between you can also heal. In the meantime, remove them from your life if you can or limit your contact with them. That too can be painful but you deserve peace and if the relationship you have is causing unrest, it must be laid to rest for now. You deserve better.
Be Pretty, Plus and Proud and take comfort in the relationships that are good and gently let go of the ones that no longer serve you in a positive way. They may come back to you but in the meantime wish them well and let them go.